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Quaid Najmi

4 January 2025 at 3:26:24 pm

Curtains down on legendary actress Vijaya Mehta

She mentored actors like Nana Patekar, Anupam Kher Mumbai: The curtains fell for the last time on the Grand Dame of acting, Vijaya Mehta - one of India’s most acclaimed actresses, director, producer, writer and visionary – whose immense contributions to mainstream and parallel cinema and theatre influenced generations of actors and filmmakers. The National Award-winning actress passed away at her Mumbai residence late on Tuesday at 91. Her last rites were performed at the Shipdham...

Curtains down on legendary actress Vijaya Mehta

She mentored actors like Nana Patekar, Anupam Kher Mumbai: The curtains fell for the last time on the Grand Dame of acting, Vijaya Mehta - one of India’s most acclaimed actresses, director, producer, writer and visionary – whose immense contributions to mainstream and parallel cinema and theatre influenced generations of actors and filmmakers. The National Award-winning actress passed away at her Mumbai residence late on Tuesday at 91. Her last rites were performed at the Shipdham Crematorium in Goregaon east this afternoon in the presence of her family, a large number of film personalities and her admirers. Prime Minister Narendra Modi, Congress Leaders of Opposition Rahul Gandhi and Mallikarjun Kharge, CM Devendra Fadnavis and many other dignitaries paid rich tributes to Vijaya Mehta. Acting Institution Considered an institution in acting in her own right, Vijaya Mehta was a quiet but stern perfectionist who mentored some of the top actors like Nana Patekar, Anupam Kher, Neena Kulkarni and many others over decades. Fondly addressed as ‘Bai’ by her students and upcoming actors, Vijaya Mehta seamlessly combined intellectual rigours of a scholar and a sensitive artist, firmly believing that acting was not about applause but of truth, discipline and honesty before the audiences. Belonging to a bygone era when plays served as a vehicle to educate, provoke and transform society through stories, and over six decades, she came to be regarded as the ‘conscience keeper’ of serious theatre, long before ‘experimental theatre’ became a vogue. She constantly breathed new life into Marathi theatre in different ways that influenced new actors, directors and earned public approval. Born in Baroda State in 1934 at Vijaya Jaywant, she came to Mumbai at a young age and graduated from the University of Mumbai, with acting remaining her passion during her college days. She performed as Desdemona in a production of William Shakespeare’s 1604 classic play, “Othello” and her acting caught the eye of the renowned theatre guru, Ebrahim Alkazi, who trained and guided her. Rangayan Launched In 1960, Vijaya Mehta, along with other stalwarts like Adi Marzban, Vijay Tendulkar, Dr Shriram Lagoo and Arvind Deshpande, founded a theatre group, Rangayan. Meanwhile, in the mid-1950s she married Harin Khote, the son of the veteran actress Durga Khote, but after his sudden passing in 1964, she married theatre personality Farrokh Mehta a few years later. Jostling for space with the prosperous commercial theatre, over the years, it went onto produce many pioneering and influential plays earning itself a formidable reputation in ‘parallel theatre’ with bold themes, grandiose productions and exemplary performances that catapulted Marathi theatre to national repute. Several of her productions and directions became legendary – Ek Shunya Bajirao, Ajab Nyay Vartulacha, Hayavadana, Mudrarakshasa, Shakuntal, and Hamidabaichi Kothi, Mahasagar, Chairs – besides adaptation of several international classics, and each bearing her signature of meticulous preparations, sensitive performances and artistic excellence from all. Theatre to Cinema The full-house responses to her productions drew the attention of cinema and she ventured both in front of and behind the camera, in various capacities. Vijaya Mehta’s films ‘Rao Saheb’ (1986) for which she won the National Award for Supporting Actress that year, and ‘Pestonjee’ (1988) rank among the landmarks of parallel cinema for their subtle story-telling along with deep characterisation. As an actor, she gave some memorable performances in the much-applauded Govind Nihalani’s film ‘Kalyug’ (1981), “Mohan Joshi Hazir Ho!”, “Akriet”, “The Mist”, and a Mahesh Eklunchwar’s famed play “Wada Chirebandi” (1985), which she made into a television film, “Haveli Buland Thi” (1987). She also acted in the film “Party” (1984), also penned by Mahesh Eklunchwar. Over the years, she was decorated with many honours and awards, including the Padma Shri, Padma Bhushan, the Sangeet Natak Akademi Award, Sangeet Natak Akademi Fellowship, Kalidas Samman, Maharashtra’s highest cultural honours and numerous lifetime achievement awards. Vijaya Mehta: A taskmaster Film industry circles credit Vijaya Mehta not only for her own achievements, but also shaping generations of actors and film-makers to make them masters in the trade. Some of those whose skills she honed include: Nana Patekar, Anupam Kher, Neena Kulkarni, Mohan Agashe, Bharti Achrekar, Sonali Kulkarni, and in his early years, even Akshay Kumar benefited from her guidance and even from her autobiography, “Zimma: A Memoir” (2012). As news of her passing spread today, her disciples, Bollywood and Marathi film industry actors and legions of fans poured their emotions for Vijaya Mehta today on social media.

Indecision Kills Personal Branding

Updated: Jan 20, 2025

Indecision Kills

In a world that celebrates clarity and confidence, hesitancy is a silent yet powerful force that can diminish your personal brand. When people dwell in the realms of “I’m not sure” or “maybe,” they unknowingly project uncertainty and unreliability—traits that can undermine the foundation of a strong personal brand. Your ability to make decisions and stand firm on them is not just a reflection of your leadership but also a testament to your personal brand’s strength.


Every interaction we have leaves an impression. Be it a professional email, a networking event, or a casual conversation, these moments contribute to how others perceive us. When you continuously oscillate between indecision and vague responses, it sends a message that you lack confidence or direction. In business, where trust and reliability are paramount, this can become a significant roadblock.


Imagine a scenario where a client approaches two service providers with the same inquiry. The first one confidently outlines a plan, clearly stating the next steps, while the second hesitates, replying with, “I’m not sure; let me think about it.” Even if both have the same expertise, the client is more likely to gravitate toward the first provider. Confidence fosters trust, and trust is the bedrock of all successful relationships—professional or personal.


Indecision can often stem from the fear of making mistakes or being judged. While this is natural, it’s important to remember that perfection is an illusion. The act of making a decision, even if it turns out to be less than ideal, demonstrates courage, responsibility, and accountability. These are the traits that elevate a personal brand, distinguishing you in a crowded and competitive world.


Being decisive doesn’t mean being impulsive or reckless. It means gathering information, weighing options, and then committing to a choice with confidence. In personal branding, this is particularly crucial because every decision you make—how you respond to challenges, present yourself, or communicate with others—forms part of the narrative others associate with you.


Hesitation and indecision don’t only affect how others perceive you; they also impact how you view yourself. Constantly second-guessing yourself leads to self-doubt, which becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. The more uncertain you are, the more others will mirror that uncertainty, creating a cycle that can be hard to break.


One way to counter this is by setting clear priorities and aligning your decisions with them. For instance, if your personal brand is centred around being a thought leader in your industry, your choices should reflect expertise and foresight. Even in moments of ambiguity, acknowledging the uncertainty while showing a proactive approach—such as saying, “I’ll find out and get back to you”—conveys both honesty and determination.


During my recent trip to Australia, I was reminded of how decisiveness shapes impressions. Whether interacting with global clients or navigating unfamiliar professional terrains, I realized that certainty in communication was key to building trust and rapport. This was particularly evident when representing my personal brand on international platforms. A clear, confident tone opened doors and strengthened relationships that would have otherwise remained distant.


The next time you find yourself leaning on phrases like “I’m not sure” or “maybe,” pause and ask yourself: Is this hesitation necessary? Sometimes, it’s about silencing the inner critic and choosing to act decisively. Even if the outcome isn’t perfect, the act of making a choice positions you as someone who is reliable, proactive, and worth trusting.


Your personal brand isn’t defined by the absence of mistakes but by how you handle them and move forward. Decisiveness isn’t just about making choices—it’s about owning them. And in a world that often feels uncertain, those who lead with clarity and conviction stand out.


Make your decisions a reflection of your confidence, and watch as your personal brand strengthens, opening doors you never imagined.

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(The author is a personal branding expert. She has clients from 14+countries. Views personal.)

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